How To Decide & Pick The Perfect Baby Name?

How To Decide & Pick The Perfect Baby Name?

Naming a baby is one of the most exciting milestones for parents, yet it can quickly turn into a source of stress and endless debates. After all, a name is the first gift you give your child—a lifelong identity. But for most parents in 2024, the process has become more complex than ever, with a blend of traditional expectations, modern trends, and personal preferences. Gone are the days when elders would suggest a name and parents would quietly go ahead with it or the days when grandparents names were passed on to grandchildren without much of a thought! With social media dominating much of our thoughts,coming up with the “perfect name” has become more challenging than ever!

Table of Contents

Why Is Choosing a Baby Name So Challenging?
The Unique Challenges Faced by Indian Parents
The Role of Astrology (Rashi Names)
Choosing A Baby Name According to Numerology
Morphed Names from Parents / Deities
Global Relevance
Gender-Neutral and Progressive Names
What If Naming Could Be Simpler?
What’s Your Story?

Why Is Choosing a Baby Name So Challenging?

In today’s world, finding the perfect name feels like searching for a needle in a haystack. Now, parents want something unique yet meaningful, trendy yet timeless. However, the sheer number of options and the fear of repetition often leave parents overwhelmed. Open any school attendance list, and you’ll find multiple Aaravs, Ananyas, or Vihaans—names that were once unique but are now so common that parents hesitate to choose them.

Complicating matters further is the difference in preferences between couples. One parent might lean toward a modern, globally relevant name like Ayaan, while the other prefers something rooted in tradition, like Aryan. These disagreements often lead to lengthy discussions (or arguments) that can last weeks! How many Kyras, Amayras, Ishaans, Ahaans do you know? We are sure these names which once were trending have now become common too! 

The Unique Challenges Faced by Indian Parents

This one deserves a special mention as Indian parents do choose to name their children with astrology playing a big role. Many parents want to choose names based on the baby’s rashi (zodiac sign) or numerology. While these names have significance, they may not always align with a parent’s vision. For example, a name starting with "A" might be astrologically ideal, but the parents might be drawn to a name beginning with "S."

Another modern trend is the desire to create a unique name by blending the parents’ names. While this is a sweet idea, it doesn’t always result in names that feel natural. For instance, Neha and Rahul might become Nehal, or Sanya and Karan could turn into Saran. It’s creative but can sometimes feel forced or impractical.

Adding to the mix is the pressure from extended family. Grandparents may insist on a name steeped in tradition, like Gopal, while a trendy aunt might suggest something unconventional, like Aayden. Balancing these expectations while staying true to your own desires can be a tricky tightrope to walk.

The Role of Astrology (Rashi Names)

Many parents consult an astrologer to determine their baby’s rashi (zodiac sign) based on the time and place of birth. Each rashi corresponds to specific syllables that are considered auspicious for naming. For example:

  • Aries (Mesh): Names starting with "A", "L", or "E."
  • Taurus (Vrishabh): Names starting with "Ba", "Va", or "U."

While these guidelines are meant to bring prosperity and good fortune, they can limit choices significantly, especially if parents have their hearts set on a name that doesn’t fit the prescribed syllables.

Choosing A Baby Name According to Numerology

Numerology has become a very popular consideration for modern Indian parents. Based on the belief that numbers influence destiny, some parents calculate their baby’s "lucky number" and choose a name that aligns with it. This often involves tweaking spellings to fit the numerological formula or finding the right numerologically aligned name. For instance:

  • Aarav might become Aaravh or Aravv to match a favorable number.
  • Names for numerology number 5, which is associated with traits like adaptability, curiosity, and adventure can be Arjun, Rudra, Anaya or Kavya.
  • While numerology offers a sense of security, it can also make the naming process more complicated and time-consuming.

Morphed Names from Parents / Deities

A modern trend among Indian parents is combining parts of their own names to create a unique name for their baby. For example:. Sagar and Maya can become Samay or Samaya or Shiva and Krishna can become Krishiv

While this approach adds a personal touch, it can sometimes be difficult to come up with the right sounding combination. 

 

Global Relevance

In today’s connected world, many Indian parents want names that are easy to pronounce across different cultures. They avoid names that might be mispronounced or misunderstood internationally. For example, a traditional name like Harshita might be lovely in India but could pose pronunciation challenges abroad, leading some parents to choose simpler options like Harsha or Aria.

Gender-Neutral and Progressive Names

Another modern trend is the preference for gender-neutral names that reflect equality and inclusivity. Names like Aadi, Sam, or Arya are increasingly popular but require thoughtful consideration to ensure they still hold cultural or personal significance. We have so many Indian celebrities who have chosen progressive names! Virat Kohli naming his son Akaay or Telugu actor Ram Charan naming his daughter Klin Kara or Actress Kalki and Director Anurag Kashyap naming their daughter after the Greek poet Sappho are examples of this!

Parents also seek names that set their child apart, avoiding overly common names that could make their little one blend into the crowd. However, as everyone searches for something unique, the pool of truly rare names seems to shrink, making the task feel even more daunting.


What If Naming Could Be Simpler?

Imagine a solution that takes away the stress of choosing a name. A resource that helps you find the perfect balance between tradition and modernity. A tool that suggests names based on your baby’s rashi and numerology while considering both parents’ preferences. What if you could browse through a curated list of unique, meaningful names without spending hours on Google or debating endlessly with your partner?

Sounds like a dream, doesn’t it? Well, something exciting is on the horizon to make this dream a reality! 

What’s Your Story?

Every parent has a story about the challenges they faced while naming their baby. Was it agreeing with your partner? Meeting family expectations? Finding a name that stood out? We’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences! Share your journey in the comments below! 

Stay tuned as we prepare to unveil a game-changing way to simplify the beautiful journey of naming your baby.

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16 comments

  • Kumud Gupta

    So,My Daughter was born In october 2023,and I remember how Frantically I wanted to choose her name to be unique and best but I dint had the energy to scroll through internet post delivery,it took us a month to decide her Name.
    I believe in Hindu mythology and so i asked the priests for the name initials as per my daughters Horoscope so we were given a lot of options but the best was Ai,So without second Thoughts we started searching,At last me n my husband Chose “Aishvi” for her as her name which means Goddess Luxmi,I loved the name.We also wanted to give her a nickname from our initials which we had pre pregnancy too,As my name is Kumud and my Husbsnds name is Manik,So we thought if it would be a girl then we would give her nickname as ’KIMI’abd if ots a boy then “MIKI”,So here it is,We call our Goddess as Aishvi and Kimi♥️♥️
    Its our story of naming our firstborn♥️

  • Remya Murugesh

    We are from Kerala and everyone expected us to name something derived from epics.. Me n my husband decided to hide the name from all and decided to reveal the same only during the naming ceremony…
    We wanted to give a first name n middle name for the baby as we both held common names with initials in place of surname
    We both agreed for a girl name in the first trimester itself, however had a lot discussion till the last trimester and we finally agreed upon the first name “Neev” – the foundation or root of our love
    Then the hunt began for the middle name. We wanted to have its origin from a different culture. My husband was very keen to Japanese n Korean shows and came up with a lot of suggestions but nothing was fascinating or getting along with Neev.
    In the last week of my pregnancy we felt like if we are very sure about the girl name we should have something similar for the boy name, so the middle name should start with ‘O’, making it very difficult and we shortlisted a few names.
    I delivered a baby boy through C-section, and the only words I had with my husband on my to post operative ward were name him Neev Orhan
    Orhan – Turkish origin meaning a great leader
    As we agreed, we hid the name from all till the ceremony and handed off a card with the name n meaning explained
    That’s how we called him Neev Orhan and fondly Eevu or Ori

  • Sudha

    I chose the name Prajvith Jayin because it embodies a powerful combination of qualities—Prajvith symbolizes brilliance and enlightenment, representing a bright and positive future, while Jayin means victory, signifying success and resilience. Together, the name reflects aspirations for a life filled with wisdom, strength, and triumph. It strikes a perfect balance between tradition and modernity, has a harmonious flow, and offers a unique yet meaningful identity, making it a truly special choice for my child.

  • Gayatri Arora

    We named our baby boy Aryadit. Aryadit means “The Sun”
    We welcomed our little angel on 28th October 2024 and a relative told us that his birth date number is 1 which is associated with Suryadev. We were intrigued by this information and started looking for names that are inspired by “Sun”
    Interestingly, found out that my Father in Law’s and my husband’s names also mean the sun – Arun and Rohit respectively – totally a surprising coincidence. So it was only apt that we named our Son “Aryadit” to continue the same thread :)
    He truly is the sunshine of our lives <3

  • Anusha Mohanty

    Baby name is a huge struggle and we went through our share! We tend to overthink do much! I have 2 kids and we wanted unusual names for sure. We wanted them to be Indian origin if possible but sounding exotic. We go as per numerology only and both our kid’s naming took months! My girls are called AHANTI and ANTHREYA. :)

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